TMI/Testes Tuesday

namara5532

TMI:  Poor DS is sick, and that means his poop has changed.  It's been the nice, roll off the cloth diaper kind of poop for a month or so, but it went back to peanut buttery last night.  Here's to hoping it's the sickness that made it that way and that we'll be back to plopable poop soon.

Testes:  Even though I've shown him, DH doesn't know the easiest way to clothe DS.  He knows how to pull the onesie over his head, but instead of then pulling his arms through, he pulls it down so his arms are trapped inside the onesie.  Then DS fusses while DH struggles to get the arms through the sleeves.  I made a comment that I need to show him again the easier way to get him dressed, and he got a bit huffy at me.  This is why I generally let him do it his way, but I'd rather DS not already be upset when he's handed to me for his nighttime feeding.

bigbear

This is kind of TMI and Testes combined.

I have no interest in doing the deed. I"m exhausted, AF is really messing with my hormones and my PMS starts really early. But DH of course wants it all the time. I try and we do something (I try at least once/week) but he gets pushy. We've had this issue before, but he just comes and says how he needs "release" and that basically I should do it for him since he's my husband and that he shouldn't have to do anything on his own if he's married. And that it simply should be fun for me, too. UM REALLY?? That just kills all the mood that I may have. Worst part is, he just lays down and it's basically, come get it/please me. NO THANKS!

He'd probably kill me if he knew I posted this

Huahine

bigbear:

This is kind of TMI and Testes combined.

I have no interest in doing the deed. I"m exhausted, AF is really messing with my hormones and my PMS starts really early. But DH of course wants it all the time. I try and we do something (I try at least once/week) but he gets pushy. We've had this issue before, but he just comes and says how he needs "release" and that basically I should do it for him since he's my husband and that he shouldn't have to do anything on his own if he's married. And that it simply should be fun for me, too. UM REALLY?? That just kills all the mood that I may have. Worst part is, he just lays down and it's basically, come get it/please me. NO THANKS!

He'd probably kill me if he knew I posted this

wow.  just wow.

And the second part - no wonder you have no interest.  So he is quite the lady killer, huh?

 

 

kmm2150

Huahine:

bigbear:

This is kind of TMI and Testes combined.

I have no interest in doing the deed. I"m exhausted, AF is really messing with my hormones and my PMS starts really early. But DH of course wants it all the time. I try and we do something (I try at least once/week) but he gets pushy. We've had this issue before, but he just comes and says how he needs "release" and that basically I should do it for him since he's my husband and that he shouldn't have to do anything on his own if he's married. And that it simply should be fun for me, too. UM REALLY?? That just kills all the mood that I may have. Worst part is, he just lays down and it's basically, come get it/please me. NO THANKS!

He'd probably kill me if he knew I posted this

wow.  just wow.

And the second part - no wonder you have no interest.  So he is quite the lady killer, huh?

 

 

Yeah, that is not cool.

I am similarly disinterested in the deed, and have been basically since DD was born - just so many other things that I"d rather do with my limited free time like, oh, sleep. DH's reaction, though, is usually to be hurt - he acts like he thinks I'm not attracted to him anymore or something - I'm still not sure how much he really feels like this and how much it's just an attempt to guilt me into something.  However, DH would not still be living in our house if he acted like that.

michaelaskedlauren

I try and schedule it too. I dont tell him this, Ill just think to myself "ok, tonight I will initiate." This way I can get my gameface on ahead of time without DH thinking he is going to get some. Of course at least 50% of the time I either end up falling asleep on the couch or DH does something to piss me off or he ends up having to work late.

He knows that Im not still totally into it yet, so he doesnt pressure me which is nice, but I do feel bad and try to at least give him some action once week...however we are now going on 2.5 weeks due to the above reasons!

Oh, and to continue with the same theme, for my TMI last week DH and I were joking around about DTD and he said this to me: "I really miss it when you used to go out with your co-workers, come home wasted and just be a complete sl*t with me." Hahaha. Am I a keeper or what?

bigbear

Huahine:

bigbear:

This is kind of TMI and Testes combined.

I have no interest in doing the deed. I"m exhausted, AF is really messing with my hormones and my PMS starts really early. But DH of course wants it all the time. I try and we do something (I try at least once/week) but he gets pushy. We've had this issue before, but he just comes and says how he needs "release" and that basically I should do it for him since he's my husband and that he shouldn't have to do anything on his own if he's married. And that it simply should be fun for me, too. UM REALLY?? That just kills all the mood that I may have. Worst part is, he just lays down and it's basically, come get it/please me. NO THANKS!

He'd probably kill me if he knew I posted this

wow.  just wow.

And the second part - no wonder you have no interest.  So he is quite the lady killer, huh?

EXACTLY! If he would make it a bit more fun and maybe a bit more about me (without just grabbing "me" if you know what I mean) it would help and I'd probably be in the mood. But there is no foreplay, nothing and I can't just switch and do it! Not sure what the heck happened to him. We used to have lots of fun and he used to be a lot more considerate. There really is no intimacy or closeness anymore, just a "job" to get IT done and that doesn't fly with me

 

 

wychets

My TMI- is I guess an UO on this post. Since DD was born my sex drive has been through the roof!! 1-2x a night and sometimes in the morning before the alarm goes off. I don't know where it came from:()

bigbear

wychets:

My TMI- is I guess an UO on this post. Since DD was born my sex drive has been through the roof!! 1-2x a night and sometimes in the morning before the alarm goes off. I don't know where it came from:()

I wouldn't say it's an UO but I am a bit jealous

namara5532

Yeah, I wouldn't put up with that kind of behavior.  I'd tell him to go find some porn and take care of himself.  Just because we're married doesn't mean I'm obligated to 'relieve' him, especially considering that he rarely 'relieves' me the same way.

We're probably weird, but we don't consider sex important.  We DTD for the first time after having DS probably a week ago.  DH is more empathetic than most guys though, so unless he's in a mood, he's happier just snuggling.

bigbear

namara5532:

Yeah, I wouldn't put up with that kind of behavior.  I'd tell him to go find some porn and take care of himself.  Just because we're married doesn't mean I'm obligated to 'relieve' him, especially considering that he rarely 'relieves' me the same way.

We're probably weird, but we don't consider sex important.  We DTD for the first time after having DS probably a week ago.  DH is more empathetic than most guys though, so unless he's in a mood, he's happier just snuggling.

I love to snuggle and really need it at the end of a rough day. But I don't even want to do that anymore b/c I know what it will lead to. A stupid comment of how I should "hop on" or something.

Anyway, sorry, I didn't mean to make this whole thread about me